Aupair Visa Rejected

Today i got a letter from the Danish Immigration Service they has decided that i cannot be grated a resident permit as an Aupair. They finds that the purpose of my application is not with a view to be an Aupair,but instead with a view for a long-term stay. They also said i have higher health Education and that i have worked in a kindergarten as well as to the fact that i am currently working as a 5th grade teacher,they do not find that the proposed stay fits into the context of my life history as documented with regards to my age,education and work experience!

Actually i don't understand what standard do they use to make decision to giving a visa to who want to apply resident visa as an Aupair, i was shock and start crying until now ,i don't know what to do next, i lose my time , my money for that , i put a lots of my hope in this and my dream was disappear in just 1 second. All my dream that i want to make it up just gone, i have no chance to Visit kids no chance for new opportunity that i can try to open my heart my eyes to learn in this whole world.

I have been talk to my Host family we both are very disappointed because they are Prepare everything there for me and now they got big problem because no one will take care of her son when they gone to work.Otherwise we will try to see if we can make it work in another way.i have nothing to lose here anymore wherever i can do i will do!

we just figure that now we think The Danish Immigration there they were misunderstand about my Education and my work experiences they though i was finished Bachelor's degree at Physical Education College for first 3 years and then next 4 years finished Master degree at Chiang Mai University that its completely wrong because i finished only Bachelor not Master.

There were full time studies but the 3 years in Gymnasium was in the Physical Education "College" in High school (grade 10-12), like Vocational school in the USA, but here in Thailand it is through the college rather then high school.
Then studies 2 years of Health Education after high school at the same "college" as the physical Education studies before studying 2 more years of Health Education at Chiang Mai University to Complete the Bachelor's degree.

During the final year and 9 months at CMU I was working night shift at the foster home while studying and practice teaching during the daytime , I didn't have work experience after finished school that much as they said and i have been kindergarten teacher for 6 months because i don't have kindergarten degree to qualification to teach this level even i am not qualification for elementary school i teaching now either because my degree is Health ED teacher as said above.

My host family will talk and try to Explain for the Danish Immigration this monday I am not sure it will work or not but we still have hope and trust that God will give a me a chance to learn new Opportunities at Oversea. Please Pray for me

Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game.

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Patient Time for Being an Aupair

I thought I was a pretty patient person until I started to waiting for my Visa to Denmark then I realized that's I'm not that patient person at all..

The dream is becoming a reality! as many of you know i am currently preparing and get ready to start my Aupair life in Denmark. so there still isn't much to update you on as far as my travel plans to go as you can see on my passport No Visa it's just said to me to save this page for Visa stamp!OHH Come on ...i was telling someone the other day about my upcoming trip to Denmark and they asked "why Denmark?" i quickly answered "why not?" this trip is just "a great opportunity" and something to do "while i'm still young and unattached". but i think there is more to it than that. its hard to put into words exactly why i have chosen to go overseas for being an Aupair rather than teaching in Chiangmai. i know that it's completely not the same kind of learning can (and most likely will)

Every day during the week i always have my cell phone with me normally i am not really stuck with a cell phone it's just because i am on the way to waiting for Danish Embassy to call me and let me know i get a Visa it's made me being crazy.I don't know exactly when i will get it just have to waiting and be patient like this and i realized that's I'm not that patient person at all as i said before..but what can i do...just pray and wish A dream will come true, many friends they're said to me in Thai "Jai Yen Yen" that's normal for Thai peoples will always say to you, Kinda funny but i think i like it because it just the way i can do for now!

well i've hit the one month mark.soon i will be on a plane that will be taking me to the other side of the world for 18 months to start to be an Aupair. i've certainly not prepare or start to do anything to get ready for my stuffs that's i will take to there for living so far as..

i have No plane ticket yet.
i have a passport and waiting for visa.
i have a place to live and have foods to eat.
I have work to do.
i have learn that i will be living in -5 or more degree celsius weather, i can't imagine at all what is going on me when the weather like that!!
i have not packed or prepare anything, no suitcase,no super warm clothes.
i have not been hit with the reality of this whole thing.

I still have no idea what i am gonna tell the school and my students where i am teaching now why i will leave, actually i have the reasons but as you know it's pretty hard to say that you gonna leave and say good bye them.I like to be a teacher in this school i like to help them and growing this school and pass the hard time with them as a team work but i still want to making up my dream,i want to tell them as soon as i can after i get a visa i know that's kinda like being selfish but it's just the way i can do it for now but can't just someone tell me something i don't know!!!!

well i think that's all i have for now. keep checking back for updates cause this is the best place to find what going on me. hope everyone has a great week. God bless! look on Aupair Diaries